Have you ever stopped to think about what makes you laugh? I don’t mean a comedic movie or a witty friend, but rather those every day things for which you seem to always find joy. Personally, I find humor in just about everything. For a long while I thought I was cold and unfeeling because I laugh so much, but I have recently come to realize that this just might be a gift.
Yesterday I took my sister to her surgery follow-up appointment with the oncologist. We were to receive the news from pathology so there was definitely some tension involved. Well, fantastic news dear readers, she’s free of cancer. Her pathology came back clear. There was no cancer to be found in her lymph nodes and they were able to completely remove the tumors and surrounding tissue. Her case was presented to the tumor conference at the cancer hospital and all the doctors concurred. She doesn’t even need radiation. Giddiness ensued, I tell you. It was evident that the doctor and nurses don’t often get to deliver this sort of news. They reveled in it just as much as we did. We had built ourselves up for a long fight, just like with my Mom, but I’ve always maintained that this one felt different. Does it ever!
After the office visit, we took a short drive over to my sister’s shop to spread the good news, but were met with a shock. When my sister poked her head out of a broken window to greet us, we knew something was amiss. Her store had a break-in and we found her cleaning up finger print graphite dust that had been spread all over the surfaces. You’re smart, so think about this – graphite dust and wedding dresses. We all escaped to the little pastry shop down the street. Yeah, pastry is always a good idea. Needless to say, there were some pretty bizarre emotions hovering over me yesterday.
As I arrived home late afternoon, with a million things to do, for some reason, I began to think about what makes me laugh. Why do I find joy and humor in the little things? Here are a few things that made me laugh yesterday, aside from the miraculous cancer news:
Oh my gosh, sesame oil!
Opening a jar of my homemade strawberry jam and finding a piece of vanilla bean I evidently forgot to scoop out while canning.
Bending over to pick up trash the wind had blown into my yard – it was yellow and I like yellow.
The vintage dress pattern my Dad found at an estate sale.
Screwing up a curry recipe (I shouldn’t be allowed to cook while so tired).
Finding a piece of mud on my kitchen floor that was shaped like a heart.
Waking up at 2:03 am.
Turning over individual pieces of frying tofu with a fork.
The little buds on my flowering plum tree that are now big enough I can see them without my glasses. Seriously, I giggled! Come over in a few weeks and smell my tree and giggle with me. It’s intoxicating!
My husband’s beard. He just doesn’t get how cute he is.
Mistyping my user name and password for this blog. I do it every single day!
My hair sliding out of the pins I so desperately try to control it with.
Although I am struggling with my yoga practice right now, unrolling my mat last night made me grin.
My daughter trying to speak with an English accent. Actually, I snorted with laughter for this one.
The look on my little sister’s face as she gingerly held up an envelope between her thumb and forefinger that was covered in finger print dust.
My son using the word
garrulous to describe his sister.
Saying out loud in response to a question, “I am what I am and knowing how much that weighs won’t change anything.”
Having absolutely no clue why any of this makes me laugh, makes me laugh.
What about you; what makes you laugh? I encourage you to write it down because it might just make you laugh, or even better, someone else.